I really should go to bed. I should be
but instead i'm
...woah, search wide awake in google images. crazy land.
I'm really tired of the present assignment, and it isn't going away like they normally do, and it's getting to me.
I know that coz my activity at youth group was not to standard. it's so so stupid, because God is so far in control of it i should not spend any time worrying, - i didn't even realise i had a problem and then suddenly there was an extension for my group (which i so needed)
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It's just ...my last one really. then i become a real person (on a casual basis).
identity....
Oh, yes, i remember - it is very warm. suddenly it seems this seems to mean any girl should ditch her dignity and wear mainly a lack of clothing.
I shall not participate in this. I have a better understanding of the ramifications of this action now. As a 17 year old girl who understood sometime she looked vaguely ok, i did not consider that modesty affected people other than myself. And boys are sposed to like how girls look anyway, so i didn't care.
Now i understand more clearly that that's just unkind. Guys don't need to see excess of skin, and, i'll say it, cleavage. that image sticks, but it is unwelcome for most guys i am friends with. even my fiancé doesn't want to see it - because if i'm not his wife, he does't want to know about it. my other guy friends think similarly.
tv says if you're attracted to it, take it. but we know that you shouldn't take anything that isn't yours.
We should care. we should want to be kind to our guy friends, both with and without wives. we should give them a break, coz life is difficult enough with the media shoving women's bodies onto everything they want to sell in a way i am unsettled by.
It's too hot, don't give yourself heat exhaustion.
but with shorts, skirts and shirts, inches count. think about who sees you and what they have to see.
when it comes to faces, deal with it. i've been getting uglier all my life. you'll just have to be scarred.
to sleep, perchance to dream - but not about vampire weddings (if u wanna know, ask)
a*
4 comments:
(Re: modesty) Precisely. Besides, the more skin you have exposed, the more chance you have of getting skin cancer. And if you have them taken off, the result isn't pretty. And if skin cancer kills you, it's even less pretty.
That's why I hate summer...girls suddenly have a great excuse to wear little bikinis and short skirts. summer tv ads suck also, because they perpetuate this idea that summer is associated with parties and lots of fun, when in reality, summer just makes people hot and irritable...
...and black isn't as fun to wear in summer. cotton dresses are good, even if they are floor length, they are still cool and summery.
Well people do tend to have more parties in summer...ok at least in my experiences but yeah I guess it's a massive struggle for us in ways that it's crazy. Just the way we're wired hehehe.
Was talking about this with Ajo and it's such a crazy topic to talk about because we went on forever about it and other related topics and how much it does affect us guys. Sigh. Just the way we are.
BUT it's so awesome that you guys know about it hehehe and thank you guys for doing something about it hehehe :)
The same goes with us though but hey I'm sure you'll say something about it hehehe :)
Matt: If only the lack of decent clothing was restricted to parties. I've seen girls walking around uni and shopping centres wearing clothing practically containing less fabric than a handkerchief.
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